Obituary
Joy Cottrell Ashlock

Joy Cottrell Ashlock

Joy Cottrell Ashlock
Age: 69
Complete Address: 414 Oriole PO Box 326 Inyokern, California 93527-0326
Date of Death: September 19, 2020
Cause of Death: Hemorrhage Shock due to Anemia caused by Diverticulitis
Place of Death: Palmdale Regional Hospital Palmdale, California
Resident of: Ridgecrest, California since 1991
Previous residence Lawrenceburg Tennessee 1970-1990
Fillmore, California 1990 -2001
Date of Birth: 10 May 1951 Waynesboro, Tennessee
Occupation: Retired book keeper Retired August 1991
Last Employer: William L. Morris Chevrolet Fillmore, California
1969 graduate of Fillmore High School
Survivors:
Brother Keith Cottrell Fillmore, California
Sister Delphene Edwards Virginia
Sister Shirley Cromwell Lawrenceburg, Tennessee
Sister Maunie Waters Riverside, California
Husband Roy Ashlock, Sr. 414 Oriole PO Box 326 Inyokern, California
Step Daughter Jennifer Ova Cedar City, Utah
Step Son Roy Ashlock Mesa, Arizona
Step Daughter Kristin Powell Sisters, Oregon
Step Son Andrew Ashlock Cambria, California
7 step grand children
4 step great grand children
Service: Memorial 10 Oct 2020 2:00 PM Inyokern Baptist Church Inyokern, CA
Mortuary: Holland & Lyons Ridgecrest, CA
She requested cremation. Final burial Bardsdale Cemetery next to her mother at later date.

 
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Norbert Castel de Oro (1952-2020)

Norbert Castel de Oro (1952-2020)

January 1, 1952 to September 6, 2020
“When we rise again with glorious bodies, in the power of the Lord, these bodies will be white and resplendent as the snow, more brilliant than the sun, more transparent than crystal, and each one will have a special mark of honor and glory, according to the support and endurance of torments and sufferings, willingly and freely borne to the honor of God.” Bl. Jan Van Ruysbroeck
Norbert (Bert) went Home to his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on a Sunday morning, with his family by his bedside.
Norbert leaves behind his wife of 35 years, Wanda, and three sons: Matthew Furness (Marilyn) of Fillmore, Daniel Furness (Chrissy) of Mammoth Lakes, and Andrew Castel de Oro (Sigourney) of Goodfellow AFB, Texas (US Army). He adored his eight grandchildren: Katrionna, Ryan, Summer Grace, Heather, Jenna, Luke, Jackson Pio, and Miriam. They will always remember and love Grandpa. His family meant everything to him.
He always joked that he was “Born in East LA”, like the Springsteen song, to Norbert and Gloria, both deceased.
Norbert entered the US Air Force as a young man of 20, and proudly served for 16 years, eight active duty, eight Air National Guard. During his military service he was assigned to Norton AFB, San Bernardino, CA, Hamilton AFB, Marin County, CA, Wright-Patterson AFB, Ohio, Elgin AFB, Florida, and 2-years at Incirlik Air Base, Turkey. He also was called back to active duty for Operation Desert Storm in 1991, serving two tours in Europe/Kuwait. He Honorably Discharged from service when his health no longer allowed him to continue.
Norbert worked for 11 years with the LAPD as a Police Service Rep / 911 Dispatcher at Parker Center, and various police stations including Newton, Wilshire and Hollywood division. He received many commendations during his time there, including an Operation Desert Storm Employee Recognition Ceremony with Mayor Tom Bradley. He was on-hand for the 1984 Olympics serving on a security advisory panel, and during the Los Angeles riots in 1992. He left the LAPD with a medical discharge after developing carpal and cubital tunnel which required several surgeries.
In 2004 he earned a Certificate of Achievement from the Department of Homeland Security Emergency Management Institute, which he utilized working for the City of Santa Barbara for five years before retiring.
He continued to work as a history teacher at Rio Mesa High School, Oxnard, and substitute teacher in the Fillmore Unified School District, where he was known as “Mr. C”. He also worked as an assistant in Fillmore’s Gateway Program for several years.
Norbert earned his bachelor’s degree in Political Science from Cal Lutheran University, Thousand Oaks, and completed one year of law school (VC School of Law) before health issues again interfered. He always had a strong interest in religious civil rights and planned to pursue the field with a law degree. He also worked as a Researcher at the Ronald Reagan Presidential Library, with his work resulting in Richard E. Neustadt’s book “Presidential Power and the Modern Presidents”. The book is dedicated to him.
Thank you for the many cards, letters and flowers expressing love and friendship for Norbert. Several sentiments stood out

“If you have wondered about how you have made a difference, think about your family. Think about the kids in this community. Think about your many friends.”
“We were blessed to have him. He was a well-liked, respected, and trusted.”
“For me he was as authentic a human being as a friend could be.”
“He was a wonderful friend to me, and I cherished his friendship. I will miss his presence.”
Thank you to Assisted Home Health & Hospice for the five months of care they provided to Norbert, and especially to nurse Sherry for her excellent care and compassion.
Thank you to Diane for her meals, prayers, rosaries, and presence.
Thank you to Fr. Pasquale for visiting Norbert at the hospital and administering Last Rites, and to Fr. Alex for his care and concern.
A special thank you to son Daniel and Chrissy for all you did for him (and me) at the end. He knew.
Norbert is also survived by (Wanda’s family) brother-in-law Larry and wife Cathy, and their daughters Tracy and Jackie, and their spouses, and children; his sister Janice and brothers Gary, James and Stephen and their spouses, and many aunts, uncles, nephews, nieces and cousins.
A service will take place at St. Francis of Assisi, Fillmore in December where Norbert attended daily Mass. Any donations in Norbert’s name can be made to St. Francis of Assisi, Fillmore, or the Gary Sinise Foundation, in support of our returning veterans. He would have liked that.

 
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Marie Wren (1928-2020)

Marie Wren (1928-2020)

Local author Earle Marie Wren, passionate advocate for Boy Scouts, public schools, Rancho Camulos, and all things Fillmore, passed away on September 12, 2020. Graveside services will be at Bardsdale Cemetery on Monday, September 28, 11 am. Masks will be required, and attendees are asked to follow the six-foot recommendation for social distancing. Due to the pandemic, there will not be a reception following the service. Marie understood that many of her family and friends would not be able to attend due to the unique time in which we find ourselves. Donations may be made, in her honor, to the Fillmore Alumni Scholarship Fund.
After 92 years and a great life, Marie Wren decided she was ready for “the next chapter” and declined treatment for her cancer. Organized until the end, she wanted to spare her family the chore of writing an obituary and so drafted her own. This is a slightly condensed version.
Earle Marie Wren was born to Buren and Jessie Johnston on July 23, 1928 in Coleman County, Texas. In 1938 Marie, her mother, and brother Kenneth moved to her grandparents’ farm in Carter County, Oklahoma. Their three-years on that farm had a great influence on Marie’s life. Not only did she learn to love the out-of-doors, nature and storytelling, but from grades 6-8 she attended a two-room country school where she met her future husband, Gene Wren.
Marie graduated from Ardmore High School in 1945 and attended Phillips University for two years while Gene was in the Army. The two married in 1947 and Fillmore became Marie’s permanent home. She never looked back. She worked for a short time at Ramona Savings and Loan and then part time for Frank Erskine, eventually taking over his small casualty insurance agency and opening her own. She retired in 1995 to devote more time to her community interests.
Marie is survived by her daughters, Kathryn Wren Gavlak (Ray) of Fillmore and Jessica Wren Vincent (Greg) of Ridgecrest, grandsons Andrew (Sara) and Patrick Beekman, and great-granddaughter Sienna Beekman. She was preceded in death by her son Steven and her husband of six decades, Gene Wren.
Marie and Gene were active in the community from the early days of their marriage. When Gene took over as Scoutmaster of Troop 406, the couple gave up square dancing to devote more time to Scouts. Marie was the camp cook during the annual family scouting adventure each summer. While Gene organized the daily activities, Marie organized the food and cooking. Those scouts and their families became part of her large extended family.
Marie served on the Fillmore Unified School Board for eight years and was the first woman on the Board after unification. In addition to Boy Scouts, she volunteered with Girls Scouts, 4-H, PTA, Soroptimist, Lions, and the Historical Museum. She worked with the Business committee of the Chamber of Commerce and always insisted the palm trees on Central Avenue not be cut down. That was the local joke around town—don’t mess with the palm trees or you will hear from Marie Wren. She also served on the board of the Senior Center, helping to add and revitalize services for Fillmore’s senior citizens. Organizing came easily to her and she could work with anyone but was known to stand her ground, particularly at City Council meetings. She was never without an opinion (just ask any of her many friends).
Honors included Fillmore Citizen of the Year and Grand Marshall of the Festival with Gene. One year the Festival provided the backdrop for Marie to sit in a wagon with Gene and share stories of Fillmore’s early days, which she loved. The couple also enjoyed playing Santa and Mrs. Santa, which they did for 25 years.
Marie loved to write in a plain, folksy way. In addition to her voluminous correspondence, she wrote an historical column for the Fillmore Herald and then the Sespe Sun. She recently published a compilation of those columns, Stories to Be Told. Marie’s grandparents were Indian Territory pioneers and she spent several years researching and writing their story, Charley and Mary Rudd (available in the Fillmore library). She built a collection of over 1000 pioneer women biographies and women’s studies from around the world as well as Early California and Indian Territory history, much of which she donated to Ventura College. She was always available to school groups that wanted to learn about women’s suffrage, pioneers or Indians, and local history.
When Marie became associated with the then-new Rancho Camulos Museum, her interest shifted from Indian Territory history to early California history, and she became a member of the first docent group at Camulos. She helped organize the Docent Council for the museum and served as Chairman for 18 months. Her final project for the Rancho Camulos Museum was raising the money for restoration of the del Valle buggy, which was presented to the Museum Board in January 2010. That project was Marie’s “pride and joy.”
Marie was proud to be a farmer’s wife and never quite recovered from the grief that Gene’s death brought her, but she was determined to keep on smiling and doing what she could right up until “the next chapter.”

 
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Edmond “Eddie/Ed” Albert Hollis (1948-2020)

Edmond “Eddie/Ed” Albert Hollis (1948-2020)

Born May 13, 1948 in Bakersfield, Ca.
Died September 5, 2020 in Santa Barbara, Ca.
It is with heavy hearts that the family of Edmond Albert Hollis announce his passing. Eddie was a Father, Grandfather, Brother, Uncle, and friend.
Eddie grew up in Santa Paula, Ca. and attended both Santa Paula High School and California High School (Whittier, Ca.). Eddie graduated from California High School in 1966 and went on to attend and receive his Associate’s Degree from Ventura Community College. Eddie also attended California Polytechnic State University and many other technical and trade schools.
Eddie was drafted into the U.S. Army and served from 1968-1969. Eddie proudly served his country while in the Army and was a Vietnam Veteran. He was also involved in volunteering and helping his fellow Veterans over the years.
Eddie worked as an Electrician for Texaco Oil Company for many years, in the Santa Paula / Fillmore area and he lived in Fillmore, Ca. He also worked for Torch Oil Company in Bakersfield, Ca. before retiring and making Bakersfield his home.
Eddie was a participant in the Alcoholics Anonymous Program and achieved 34 years of sobriety. He also mentored and assisted other participants as a sponsor, to help them through the difficulties associated with maintaining their sobriety.
Eddie traveled across the United States and overseas, he enjoyed seeing the world and making new friends. Ed lived his life to the fullest and never missed an opportunity to talk to and meet new people.
Eddie was always working on projects around his home and workshop that kept him busy. He had an extensive collection of all types of machinery, vehicles, tools, and antique collectables. Eddie could design and build just about anything, he was a very talented welder and craftsman. He restored antique cars, built trailers, and was always thinking of the next project.
Eddie was preceded in death by his loving Mother, Juanita Hollis Boyd Lewis, Grandparents Laura and John Weatherford, Aunt Alice Bryer, Uncle and Aunt Leo and Gladys Weatherford.
Eddie is survived by his sons Kyle Hollis (Brandy), and Denman “Denny” Hollis (Angela), and stepdaughter Andrea Doures.
Sister, Shirley Hendren (Ron), Brother, Joe Hollis (Becky), Sister, Carolyn Ross (Jimmie).
Grandchildren: Jackson, Sammy, Presley, Cooper, Rowdy, Harlie, Ella, Emma, and Erin.
Eddie is also survived by many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
Eddie loved spending time with his family, especially sons Denny and Kyle.
The family would like to thank the Veterans Administration for helping to move Eddie to Santa Barbara, so he could be closer to his family. Thank you to Hoffman’s Hospice of Bakersfield and Roze Room Hospice of Ventura, for their loving care of Ed.
Ed will be interned in the National Cemetery in Bakersfield Ca. A private military ceremony to be held.

 
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Raymond R. Cuevas (1932-2020)

Raymond R. Cuevas (1932-2020)

Raymond Cuevas was born and raised in Los Angeles, but spent the last 21 years of his life in Fillmore, California.
Earning a scholarship from the Chouinard Art Institute and using the G.I. Bill as a veteran of the Korean War, he continued his studies at Otis Art Institute. After graduating, Cuevas worked as a commercial artist and award-winning graphic designer for more than 25 years.
In 1985, he began painting the unique landscapes of the Los Angeles and San Gabriel areas. In 1999, after moving to Ventura County, he focused on the remaining rural landscapes of Ventura and Santa Barbara counties.
The American artist, Mario Armond Zamparelli, described Cuevas’s achievement: “It takes one solitary eye to be sensitive to the upheaval in our communities. Raymond Cuevas has reached out and captured some of the tranquil beauty still tremulously evident in our fragile countryside. Witnessing his painting evokes [this] sense of beauty.”
Raymond Cuevas painted landscapes, cityscapes and figurative paintings. His work has been shown and auctioned at Bonhams and Butterfield, as well as John Moran Auctioneers. He was also an Artist Member of the California Art Club.
He loved nature and all animals, especially his little dogs and cats. He shared a life-long love of playing tennis with his wife, but his heart was with art, classical music, and jazz.
Ray is survived by his wife of 55 years, Judy, and his sisters, Peggy Stein and Patsy Ortiz. Due to the corona virus restrictions, a memorial will be held at a later date. Donations in his memory may be made to Big Life, African Wildlife Foundation, or World Wildlife Fund.

 
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Kenneth H. James (1924-2020)

Kenneth H. James (1924-2020)

Ken passed away peacefully at his home, with his daughter Karen present, on his 75th wedding anniversary. Ken’s beautiful wife, Jenna, passed away February, 14 of 2016.

Ken loved life, and his loving, generous, hard-working and caring spirit will be missed by his family and many friends. He is survived by his children, Karen, Roger and David, his brother Vernon, 6 grandchildren, and 7 great-grandchildren.

A celebration of Ken’s life is tentatively planned on his birthday in April 2021 at his commercial property.

Through the years Ken made friends quickly wherever he was. Everyone who met him knew he had nonstop energy, loved to make “deals,” always had a project or two going on and was a tough and compassionate negotiator. He was a friend, father-figure and mentor to many, always ready to lend a helping hand, and sharing his blunt and wise point of view.

Ken was born on April 18th 1924 in Santa Paula, California to Lillian and Howard James. Ken served in the 2nd world war 1942-1945, with the Army Air Core as a flight instructor for B-17’s.

Ken married his childhood sweet heart Jenna Cox, while serving with the Army Air Core in Mississippi. In 1959, the family moved to Goleta, CA. Ken would become well-known in his community as establishing several construction businesses, including El Sol Plastering, Casa Plastering, Casa Insulation, and Santa Barbara Insulation.

Ken supposedly “retired” at 63. At this point in his life he went on a mission to take on the world, leasing buildings all over town, opening the “Upstairs Art Gallery and building the Casa Esperanza Building. He was captain of Santa Barbara’s Golf Club Men’s Team Play. He became an avid gardener, always creating magnificent gardens around his home. He became a Pilates student, and videos of him circulated around the world on Instagram, gaining over five hundred followers.

He played Pebble Beach & Spyglass with son David when he was 90, visited his son Roger and daughter-in-law Denise in Brazil at 93, and visited his daughter Karen in Mexico.

Ken shared his experienced wisdom of 96 years with those around him. One of our favorites is when asked “what could you have done more of” he said “Love, Love, Love.” He also told us to “listen to each other!”

Ken will be missed by all who knew this special man.

Ken leaves his brother Vernon (Annabeth) James, and nephew Stanley, daughter Karen Wight, son Roger (Denise) James, son David (Linda) James, grandchildren Jemal (Gina) James, Felicia (Terry) Hanna, Arlin (Stephanie) James, Jana (Michael) Atherton, Matthew Hall and Diane Price, great grandchildren Blayke Harrison, Jaxon James, Sora Hanna and Rowan Hanna, Hunter Victoria James and Noa James and Lucio De La Santos.

 
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Douglas Richard Elkins (1938-2020)

Douglas Richard Elkins (1938-2020)

Douglas Richard Elkins, 81, (1938 to 2020), of Ojai passed away peacefully at home with family by his side. Born and raised in Fillmore he was the 4th generation in his family. Son of Richard (Dick) Elkins and Edith (Warring) Elkins.

He attended school in Fillmore and continued his education at Colorado State University. Upon completion of his college degree he returned to Fillmore, married Kathleen (Kitty) Moore and they raised their children Rick and Ann who also graduated from Fillmore.

His career was in construction, most recently working for Benner and Carpenter Surveying and Union Engineering Company. He worked for Union Engineering Company 1981 – 2013 prior to retirement. He was a member of Operating Engineers Local 12.

He also was involved with the operations of Dick Elkins Trucking with his Dad.

Doug is survived by his wife, Becky (Ford) Elkins. Daughter, Ann (Elkins) Leslie. Brother, Ed Elkins. Sister, Neila(Elkins) Beam. Step son, Nathan Larramendy (Nick). Step daughter, Tonya Peralta (John). Grandchildren, Lacie Leslie (Todd), Evan Leslie, Ethan Peralta, Owen Peralta. Great grandchildren, Tyler and Ryan.

Predeceased by son Richard (Rick) Elkins and parents Dick and Edith Elkins.

His passions were spending time with family and friends. Including deep sea fishing in Sitka Alaska with his dad, brother, sons-in-law, grandson, and friends. Spending time at the family beach cabin. Boating on the Colorado River. BBQ dinners with all the stories included.

He was a member of Fillmore Club, and Piru Sportsman Gun Club.

Don’t forget his pair of Golden Retrievers, FRED and GINGER who accompanied him everywhere including their daily trip to the donut shop.

Arrangements have been made by the Neptune Society. A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

 
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Mary Lou Blythe Purves (1937-2020)

Mary Lou Blythe Purves (1937-2020)

Mary Lou Blythe Purves passed away peacefully on August 5, 2020 in Grants Pass, OR, where she was living with her daughter and son in law, Lori and Dino.
She was born March 25,1937 to Barney and Inda Blythe in Fillmore, CA. She graduated from Fillmore High School in 1955. She worked at the packing house until she married Jim Purves on September 9, 1960. They moved to Lancaster and raised their two children, Lori and Michael. Then moved again to Ridgecrest where Jim worked on the base. They moved to Bullhead City for a time and enjoyed the fun and games there.
As Jim was a hunter, he then wanted to move to Montana and Mary agreed, if he would build her a log cabin in the woods. So off they went to Libby, Montana and lived in a trailer while the "cabin" was being built. It turned out to be some cabin!! 4 bedroom, 2 bath, big living room and kitchen, a carport and a basement. It was beautiful and they loved it. They could sit in the kitchen or living room and look out at the deer feeding in the meadow. Michael came to live with them there and in the meantime Lori had moved to Grants Pass, OR.
Jim passed away in November 2006. Later Mary was diagnosed with Non Hodgkin's lymphoma and she began chemo. Lori and Michael would take her to Libby for her treatments and while they were together they had a lot of laughs. Mary's treatments got rid of her cancer and she remained in good health. Michael passed away July 2016. The family gathered and after Michaels services we all helped Mary pack her home and Lori moved Mary and her dog and cat to Grants Pass.
Mary leaves behind her daughter Lori (Dino), her brother in law, Dick ( Barbara) Purves and many nieces and nephews.
There will be no funeral services.

 
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Peggy Lou Ilhareguy (1937-2020)

Peggy Lou Ilhareguy (1937-2020)

Peggy Lou Ilhareguy passed peacefully on August 2, 2020 at the age of 83. She was born on June 10, 1937 to Theodore and Celina Thayer in Fillmore, CA. She married her sweetheart, Ed Ilhareguy and graduated from Fillmore High School, fulfilling her promise to Ed. They were blessed with two children, Hank and Jan, and spent the next twenty years raising their family in the Fillmore community, hunting, fishing and enjoying family and friends.
The mountain air called and off they went to Colorado. They ran a lodge in Grand Mesa, then moved to Douglas Pass and started Buckridge Hunting, Ed the guide and Peg the cook. Peg was a great cook. Her cinnamon rolls and homemade bread were the best ever. Peg loved to cook, craft and shop and visit with friends and family. She had a great love for her dogs, from Tinkerbell and Taco to Killer and Kacey, her dogs held a special place in hear heart. They spent many happy years together in Colorado.
After Ed's passing Peg returned to Fillmore where she spread her laughter and smiles to all she met. Peg spent her last years at Victoria Care Center, where she could be found roaming the halls in her wheelchair and sharing her smile with all.
Peg was preceded in death by her daughter Jan and her husband Ed. She is survived by her son Hank (Linda) Ilhareguy, grandkids Lora, Shantel, Dustin, Hank, John, Samantha and Casey, eight great grandchildren, Sisters Dixie(Dan) Carpenter and Delores Swearengin and many nieces, nephews and friends all around the world.
A special thanks to all the caregivers and staff at Victoria Care Center for their loving kindness and care they gave to Peggy Lou.
No funeral services will be held.

 
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Arthur Ponce (1956-2020)

Arthur Ponce (1956-2020)

It is with great sadness that the family of Arthur Ponce announce his sudden passing on August 4, 2020. He passed away at the age of 64 years old in Piru, California. Born on June 12, 1956, in Santa Paula to Guadalupe and Jessie Ponce, Arthur was known for his infectious smile, easy-going demeanor, and way around the kitchen. A graduate of Fillmore High in 1974, Arthur (or Artie to those closest to him) spent many years working within the food industry. For the last 10 years, Arthur worked within Santa Paula High School’s food service department. It was one of his great pleasures serving those students. He loved kids. As an uncle, he enjoyed watching cartoons with his niece, Rebecca, spending time shooting hoops with his nephew, Brandon, and drawing for his niece, Julianna. Every Christmas Eve, he looked forward to playing Chinasos with his nephews, after spending an entire day spreading masa for tamales with his family. Never one to shy away from conversation, Arthur had many friends. Whether it be spending time watching his Dodgers or Lakers, or making the drive up to the June Lake Loop to do some fishing, Arthur always had his friends by his side. Arthur will be remembered for his joy of life. For the love he shared with those around him. Arthur is survived by his siblings Suzanne Duran (husband Steve), Esperanza Chavez (husband William), and Lisa Walker (husband Ron); his nieces and nephews Rebecca Barnick, Raymond Duran, Anthony Chavez, Vincent Chavez, Frank Chavez, John Chavez, Julianna Walker, and Brandon Walker. He was preceded in death by his parents. A celebration of Artie’s life will occur when COVID-19 allows. At this time, a private ceremony will be held. This obituary will be available at the Perez Family funeral home website. The family encourages all to use the interactive online tributes to post memories and respects to Artie there.

 
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Paul Ortiz Casas Jr. (1939-2020)

Paul Ortiz Casas Jr. (1939-2020)

On Palm Sunday, April 5, 2020, Paul Ortiz Casas Jr. passed away peacefully surrounded by his devoted wife, Connie Casas, and his immediate family.
Paul was born in Fillmore, CA on October 22, 1939 to Paul Casas Sr. and Antonia Ortiz Casas. He, along with six siblings, grew up on Sespe Ranch with a world of adventure at his doorstep. He took pride in telling stories at the table of how he learned to swim by being thrown into the riverbed at age four. His swimming skills later earned him the title of “Kingfish” among his family and followed him into his adult life. He landed his first job at eight years old, hunting gophers on the ranch. His first paycheck was 11 dollars and he proudly bought his father, Paul Casas Sr., a pair of boots.
Paul and Connie wed on April 20, 1963 in Santa Paula. Paul was then drafted into the US Army on their wedding day. His service took him to Texas and Germany. Once he returned home, Paul worked at Elkins Ranch Golf Course building “the back nine” and began his career then with Kenneth Hunter Jr.
He moved Connie and their two boys, Paul and Christopher, to Santa Barbara to build Sandpiper Golf Course in 1971. They had their daughter, Melissa, soon after. After the completion of Sandpiper, Paul continued his education and received an Associate’s Degree from Santa Barbara City College in horticulture.
Paul was very involved with his family, coaching his children and serving as a board member at the Goleta Boy’s Club. He also served as Dad’s Club President at Bishop Diego Garcia High School, which all of his children attended. Many memorable afternoons and evenings were spent coaching, calling BINGO, and fundraising.
He was devoted to his passion of building golf courses for 42 years. In addition to Sandpiper Golf Course, Paul built La Purisima, San Geronimo, and Hunter Ranch.
Paul and Connie retired in 2006 and immediately started their traveling adventures at sea to Fiji, then returned to their second home at Lake Nacimiento, CA. Paul enjoyed hosting dinner parties, barbecues in the summer, daily Rumikub games with Connie, playing pool, tending to his gardens and swimming and teaching his grandchildren valuable lessons and life skills.
Paul was a devoted husband, father and grandfather. Paul and Connie experienced true love for each other for 58 years. Paul would say his greatest accomplishment was his family. He is survived by his wife, Connie; three children: Paul III (Lisa), Christopher and Melissa; his grandchildren: Danika and Justin Casas, Luke and Maxine Borders, and Kai and Diego Casas. He has three surviving siblings: Irene Deskins, Gloria Castaneda and Joanne De La Torre.
The family is eager to celebrate Paul’s life once we are able to.

 
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Roberta (Berta) Maynard Espinoza (1961-2020)

Roberta (Berta) Maynard Espinoza (1961-2020)

With profound sadness we announce the passing of Roberta (Berta) Maynard Espinoza
Our loving and devoted mother, wife, sister and friend to all lives she touched.
She left us peacefully at a young age of 59 after several months of being ill.
Born January 28th 1961 to Dolores and Travis Maynard.
Roberta grew up in Fillmore and attended Fillmore schools, she was active playing basketball, softball and cheerleading as a young teenager.
She had various jobs through her life but the one the loved was care giving; she cared for grandma Angie, uncle Val, her father and her mother. She had a very caring heart and just loved giving her love to all.
Roberta relocated to Bakersfield 5 years ago to be closer to her children.
She loved to spend time with her family going to casinos with her husband, brother and sisters. She loved yard sales, going to movies with her children and grandchildren, and attending mass. Roberta was survived by her husband José Espinoza, children Tanya Rodriguez, Arthur (wife Breanna), Corina Garcia (husband José) Sabrina Martinez (husband Mike) Priscilla Rodriquez, and Joshua. Grandchildren: Eddie, Joseph, Nicholas, Gerardo, Michael, Robert, Anthony, Elijah, Ella, Bella, Eric, Nathan and Daniel. Brother Steve Maynard (wife Cathy),
Sisters Vicky Gonzalez (husband John), Kathy Myers (husband Tom), her twin Teresa Ramirez (husband Jorge), Mary Sandoval (husband Joe) and numerous nieces and nephews.
Roberta is preceded in death by her infant son Michael Rodriguez, her mother Dolores and Father Travis, nephews Lonnie Gabriel and Jorge (Pelon Ramirez).
We would like to give thanks for the overwhelming love and support during this difficult time.
Rosary will be at Basham Funeral Home (3312 Niles St Bakersfield CA, 93306) at 7pm on Thursday July 9th 2020 with a viewing from 5pm-8pm. Mass will be St. Francis of Assisi Church (900 H st, Bakersfield CA, 93304) on Friday July 10th, 2020 at 10 am with burial following at Greenlawn cemetery (2739 Panama Ln, Bakersfield CA, 93313) unlimited as long as there is social distancing.
Also due to situation we will not be able to provide a reception.

 
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Helen Marie Lidamore (1932-2020)

Helen Marie Lidamore (1932-2020)

Helen Marie Lidamore, of Fillmore California passed away peacefully on Thursday, June 4th, 2020 blessed with 88 years of precious life. After months of failing health, she died serenely at home with her beloved family by her side.
Helen was born on March 28th, 1932 into Theycol and Harold Dorman. As a child she was raised in the small farming community of Bardsdale California. Helen graduated from Fillmore High School in 1950and after one year of Jr. College she began a career at PGE as a Telephone Operator. She was blessed with a daughter Malinda K. Pavlovich from her 1stmarriage and then went on to meet the love of her life Charles E. Lidamore and was blessed with a second Child Phyllis Sparks. Charles E. Lidamore went on to Adopt Malinda as his own. They raised their family in the small agricultural town of Bardsdale where they were members of the Fillmore Piru Citrus Association.
Ms. Lidamore was a strong Matriarch, devoted community member with old fashioned values; Helen was an active member of the Bardsdale United Methodist Church. She took pride working as a Secretary for the Church for over 35 years. Helen was a founding member of the Church Bell choir where she enjoyed and work diligently to give a great performance. She was always thrilled to have her family members come and support her through her annual Christmas Bells performance. She also served alongside the Fillmore Police Department as an active member of the Citizens on Patrol in the 90’s together with her late husband Charles E. Lidamore.
Helen loved to camp by the beach, was an active member of 1000 trails, and enjoyed spending time at her cabin in Frazier Park. She also loved to watch the Dodgers and Lakers play on TV.
Helen Lidamore is preceded in death by Parents, Harold Eugene Dorman, and Theycol Dorman; loving husband Charles E. Lidamore; and son-in-law Robert Sparks.
Mrs. Lidamore is survived by her devoted children, Malinda K. Pavlovich of Fillmore CA, and Phyllis Sparks of Newbury Park CA. She also leaves behind 8 grandchildren Rebecca Tafoya, Katrina Tafoya, Kimberly Tafoya, and Anthony Tafoya of Fillmore CA; Nichole Tafoya of Bakersfield CA; Sandra Gutierrez of Thousand Oaks CA, and Jaymee Whitlock of Newbury Park CA. She also leaves behind 24 Great grandchildren, and her caring dog Lucky, 2 cats and 3 birds. Helen loved to work in her garden on her orange tree ranch and putter around the yard. So, we as a family leave this poem for our Dear Grandmee

God looked around his garden and found an empty space
Then he looked down upon this earth and saw your tired face
He put his arms around you and lifted you to rest
God’s garden must be beautiful
He only takes the best

 
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Alejandra B. Huerta (1937-2020)

Alejandra B. Huerta (1937-2020)

Alejandra B. Huerta passed away peacefully at home on July 1, 2020 surrounded by her family. Alejandra was born on July 17, 1937 in Purisima, Guanajuato Mexico to Ramon Becerra and Genoveva Alba. Alejandra was a resident of Ventura County for 56 years.
Alejandra married Paulino Huerta in 1959. They were married for 60 years. Together they raised their three children Beatriz, George, and Ramon. She worked at the Olga Co. in Santa Paula and Fillmore as a garment inspector for 15 years.
Alejandra enjoyed cooking for her family, especially making her family's favorite delicious rice. She also enjoyed shopping and her early morning walks with her husband Paulino and friends. She looked forward to trips to Mexico, going to Chumash Casino and to Las Vegas. Most of all Alejandra loved spending time with her family, grandchildren, and great grandchildren, hosting and attending family gatherings.
Alejandra will be greatly missed by her family and many friends who knew her as a compassionate and loving person who never turned anyone away and kept her door open to anyone who needed help.
Alejandra is preceded in death by her parents Ramon and Genoveva, her sister Soledad and brother Cosme and is survived by her siblings Antonio Becerra, Felipe (Angeles) Becerra, Frank (Gloria) Becerra, Antonia (Francisco) Perez and Guadalupe Gamino. She is also survived by her husband of 60 years Paulino Huerta, daughter Beatriz (Ray) Acosta, sons George (Liz) Huerta and Ramon (Shelley) Huerta; grandchildren Nicole, Brianna (Chuy), Arianna, Patricia, Jah-Leesa (Mike), Cheyenne, Sierra, Bailey, Tanner, and ten great grandchildren. She will be deeply missed by her family, numerous relatives and friends.
We would like to thank Mission Hospice for their attentive care of our beloved mother/grandmother. A viewing will be held on Tuesday, July 14, 2020 at 8:00 am at Perez Family Funeral Home in Fillmore. Followed by a Rosary and Funeral Mass at Saint Francis of Assisi Church. Internment to follow at Bardsdale Cemetery.

 
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Arthur Benjamin Chessani (1943-2020)

Arthur Benjamin Chessani (1943-2020)

It is with heavy hearts that the Chessani Family said goodbye to their patriarch, Arthur “Art” Chessani, on Father’s Day June 21, 2020. Son of John and Vera Chessani, Art was the youngest child born on June 3, 1943 at home in the town of Piru. Preceded in death by his parents, two eldest brothers John and Reynaldo, and 3 half-sisters Norma, Lucile, and Alice, Art remained the rock of the Chessani family and a landmark of his hometown. He stayed a proud lifetime resident of Piru, where he too married and raised his family with high-school sweetheart Virginia Chessani. Art is survived by his wife Virginia, daughters Cynthia and Annie, and son Phillip. Together with their families, Art’s children were blessed to have had the most devoted, kind-hearted, and patient man to call their own. Art was a committed grandfather to 5 granddaughters, 3 grandsons, and 1 great-granddaughter who will each dearly miss his warmth in their lives. He truly was a celebrated centerpiece of his family, and a treasured Father-in-law, Brother-in-law, Uncle, and friend to many.
Art was a Graduate of Fillmore High School class of 1962, where he proudly represented the Flashes on his High School Football Team. Into adulthood he worked for Fillmore Piru Citrus, briefly owned and operated a General Store with his wife in their hometown of Piru, and ended his work-life proudly retiring from Pacific Beverage. Art was a true lover of all things sports. Heformerly coached his daughter’s Softball Teams, attended all his children and grandchildren’s sporting events with pride, and later in life played for the Piru Men’s League Softball Team. Anyone who knew and loved Art knew that he was an outdoorsman at heart. Art most loved to fish, and liked to share that pastime with his son, son-in-law, and grandchildren each chance he had. As a family, the Chessani’s enjoy an annual Opening Day Fishing trip at Convict Lake. It was a tradition started by Art’s own parents, and one that Art continued to treasure each year with his own family. He always made time to teach fishing tricks to his grandkids, stopping to untangle their line or show them how to cast a bobber. And, he never left for the lake without a fresh thermos of coffee and a bag full of goodies. His happy place was truly Convict Lake, a place where so many memories were made and lifelong bonds were nurtured. Not only was Art a fisherman, but he loved the Drag Races, was always up for a Dodger game, and was a true Rams Fan for life. He was always open to a spontaneous road trip to just about anywhere that included his family. Whether he was the driver or the passenger, Art was up for a day trip to Bass Pro Shops, Chumash Casino, or any local snow covered mountain. He enjoyed grabbing breakfast out at any small-town cafĂ© or IHOP, and especially enjoyed 50’s Diners where he could celebrate his love of classic cars and oldies music. Art had a real sweet tooth, always offering chocolates from his private stash of See’s Nuts & Chews. He lived his life with an open heart, and genuinely opened his home to those who loved him in return.
Art Chessani was the man with a perpetual smile, a talkative and outgoing spirit, and had an easy-going positive disposition anytime he was called upon. He was the grandfather any kid would be lucky to have, the father you knew you could always depend on, and the husband who devoted his life to the care of his wife until his came to an end. Art sincerely loved his family. He will undoubtedly be missed, but still celebrated in each of the traditions and memories he passed on during his lifetime. His smile is imprinted on the hearts of those who knew himbest. Father’s Day will forever be changed by the father and grandfather that Art Chessani was in his life, and the bittersweet day he became the guardian angel to all he loved so dearly.
A Rosary and Funeral Mass will be held on Friday, July 3, 2020 at 11:00 a.m. at San Salvador Mission, 4041 Center St, Piru, CA 93040. Graveside to follow at Piru Cemetery. Funeral Services are under the direction of Robert Rey Garcia Jr. Funeral Services.

 
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William John Stocker (1926-2020)

William John Stocker (1926-2020)

William John Stocker passed away peacefully in his home on March 4, 2020 at the age of 93. He was born on December 23, 1926 in Los Angeles, CA, to Samuel and Helen Stocker of Los Angeles, CA. Bill moved to Fillmore, CA with his parents and sister, Jean, in August of 1939 at age 12 when his father bought a variety store. Bill’s adult brother, Lloyd remained in Los Angeles but did the bookkeeping for the business. A family of humble means they lived in the stockroom at the back of the store. After some months, the store began to prosper and there was no longer room for them to live so they bought the family home on Fourth Street where Bill’s mother remained until her passing in 1980.
Bill attended Fillmore High School lettering in Basketball and Track. Always an active student, he also played football, was on the swim team, was a member of the Phi Theta Club and was in the orchestra and band. He also met Patricia Spangler at Fillmore High, his high school sweetheart and wife of 74 years.
At age 17 1/2 after graduation, he enlisted in the Army Air Corp in Dec. 1944 as WW11 was ending. The war ended as he completed his basic training. He was assigned a job as a clerk typist where he worked as a Separation Specialist and in the recruiting department in Colorado and Utah. He was commissioned to serve in Okinawa, Japan as a clerk typist for the 13th Depot Supply Squadron. He spent 8 months there before being Honorably discharged at the end of his second year. On returning home to Fillmore he asked for Patricia Spangler’s hand in marriage. He presented her with a silk parachute he had purchased in Japan and a diamond ring. Patricia’s mother, Doris Spangler, an accomplished seamstress, made her wedding gown out of the parachute and they were married, Jan. 31, 1947. (An altered version of the gown is on display at the Fillmore Historical Museum as well as a wedding picture of the original gown)
Home from the Army, Bill worked for his parents at Stocker’s Dept. Store. In 1950 when his father, popular and well-loved Fillmore merchant and city councilman, passed away. With big shoes to fill, Bill, only 23 at the time, took over to manage the family business with his mother, Helen. During his years working at the store, two daughters were born to Bill and Pat. Cindy came along first in 1947 and Melinda was born in 1953. Stocker’s was the place to go for all your family needs in Fillmore in those days before the big malls opened out of town. Stocker’s carried in clothing, lingerie, cosmetics, hardware, toys, fabrics, and office supplies. Active in the community, Bill was a member of the Jr. Chamber of Commerce who sponsored the yearly May Festival. Bill and Pat built and decorated some amazing, award-winning floats for the Festival parade. Santa Claus made a visit to Stocker’s Dept. Store every year, too, to the delight of all the kids in town. Sadly, they could not complete with the lower prices offered by the larger stores at the malls when they opened in 1961 so they sold the store.
Bill became the manager of Tip Top Drive-in on the highway after the store was sold. It was not fast food in those days. Food was homemade. French Fries, hamburger patties and hand -rolled corn burritos were all made on the premises- favorites of all the teens that hung out at the Tip Top. Always very social Bill had a men’s coffee group that would meet daily in the back room. Bill loved his “routines” so when he sold the Tip Top in 1968, he continued the coffee drinking tradition at other businesses as the coffee group moved around town until the year before he passed. He was a proud member of the Grumpy Old Men coffee group outliving most all the guys in the group.
He sold cars for a while at Herb Gould Ford in Santa Paula and then sold restaurant supplies for a couple of years until he found his final occupation as a county employee at the Ventura County Fire Dept. He was hired by VCFD in 1969 as a Storekeeper 1. After 10 years he was promoted as a Fire Equipment Repair Technician. He retired in 1989 after 20 faithful years working for the Fire Department.
Bill had many hobbies and interests through the years. He played the trumpet for a local swing band and his wife, Pat, played the saxophone in the 1950 ‘s and ‘60’s. They also belonged to the Fillmore Dance Club that met quarterly for a formal dance. His love of music continued to recent years when Bill and Pat would drive their motor home to camp at places like Pismo Beach, Sacramento, and Three Rivers to attend annual Dixieland Jazz Festivals. He took an interest in sports of all types and could be seen at local football and basketball games every week. He even refereed little league baseball for a while. Bill loved Bowling and bowled on the weekly men’s league and with Pat on the couples’ league for many years. Bill and Pat enjoyed water skiing and took several trips with friends and family to places like Lake Shasta and Bass Lake. Bill even built his own boat He loved repairing things like lawnmowers and vacuum cleaners but most of all old cars. He was a member of the Classic Car Club and at one time was the proud owner of a 1929 Duesenberg and a 1939 Packard. In more recent years he owned a mint julep, two toned green Pierce Arrow Limousine and a yellow Model A with a rumble seat dubbed “Buttercup” which could be seen escorting dignitaries in the annual Fillmore Festival parade. He collected so many old car parts and gas pumps that he started a side business selling them to old car enthusiasts around the county. He took an interest in the history of Fillmore and served for a time on the board of the Fillmore Historical Museum where they enjoyed hearing all the stories he could tell about our town and the people in them.
Bill also enjoyed attending church in his later years and was a member of Faith Community Church where he and Pat attended faithfully every week. Always wanting to do what he felt was right, Bill chose to follow the Lord in baptism at the ripe old age of 87 showing it is never too late to ask the Lord Jesus into your heart.
Bill loved his family and took an interest in all their activities. He encouraged them to do their best and spoke his mind to give them guidance along their way. He is survived by his wife of 74 years, Patricia (Pat) Stocker, Daughter, Melinda (Chuck) Naas. Grandchildren, Lori (Don) Bennett, Ryan (Angelo) Wileman, Jeffrey (Kelli) Naas, Lisa (Jessica) Given, all of Fillmore, and Laura (Chad) Counts of Thousand Oaks. Great grandchildren Alyssa (Kenny) Lhotka, Tim Bennett (fiancée, Susan), Frankie Lozano, Kianna Lozano, Brianna Wileman, Carmen, Cody, Matthew and Kalyn Pinea, Madeline, Gabriella, AJ, Genevieve, Caleb & Jillian Munoz, Danica and Jonah Naas and Camille and Austin Counts. One Great-great granddaughter, Riley Lozano and step-great, great grandson, Carter Lhotka. He was preceded in death by his parents, Samuel and Helen Stocker, sister, Jean, brothers, Lloyd and Larry Stocker, Daughter, Cindy Wileman and Granddaughter, Melanie Wileman.
Services will be held for Bill on June 30th at 11:00 am at Faith Community Church. In lieu of flowers gifts in memory of Bill can be made to Faith Community Church of Fillmore or the Fillmore Historical Museum.

 
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Stanley Rutherford Pearce (1945-2020)

Stanley Rutherford Pearce (1945-2020)

On March 19th 2020 Stanley Rutherford Pearce, 74, of Camarillo Ca. passed away peacefully at his home. His wife of 53 years was holding his hand and singing hymns as he entered into God’s Kingdom.
He is survived by his loving wife Judy (Dudley) Pearce; sister Fayrene Stinnett (husband Roger) of Ventura; brother Donald Pearce (wife Gwen) of Phillipsburg, Montana; sons Brandon (wife Jackie) of Ventura and Hoby (wife Stacy) of Camarillo; and grandchildren JoaquĂ­n, Marin, Rory, and Cooper.
Stan was born in Stockton, Ca in 1945 to Merlyn and Josephine Pearce and moved to Fillmore in 1950. Amongst a tight network of friends, he graduated from Fillmore High School in 1964. Stan had various jobs after high school, both in Fillmore and in Los Angeles. Three years after high school Stan found his true love and married Judy Dudley of Fillmore in 1967 at the Santa Barbara Courthouse. The happy couple lived in Hermosa Beach where they were blessed with the births of their 2 sons. Fillmore drew them back in 1974 where he opened up a photography shop, Fillmore Photography which he successfully ran until the family moved to Mariposa in 1978. Mariposa brought Stan a whole new slew of friends, adventures and work opportunities. Initially Stan owned and operated a concrete pump, co-owned and operated a small grocery store with his wife, and ultimately returned back to his true passion, owning and managing a photography studio, Mariposa Photographic Studio. After retirement in 2010, Stan held a part time job at Woodland Elementary - a job that really brought him joy. Unfortunately, in 2013 Stan suffered a serious stroke that had its set of challenges. As a result, he and Judy moved to Camarillo in 2014 in order to be closer to family. The time spent in Camarillo was a true blessing to Stan as it gave him the opportunity to spend quality time with their children and 4 grandchildren. He was able to enjoy his final years of retirement with loved ones close by his side. Stan will be interned at Bardsdale Cemetery on June 15th at 10:00am.

 
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Donald Mosbarger (1925-2020)

Donald Mosbarger (1925-2020)

Donald Orley Mosbarger passed away from natural causes on Tuesday, May 19, 2020, at the age of 94. Don was born on October 10, 1925, in Fillmore, California. After graduating from Fillmore High School in 1943, he enlisted in the United States Army. He served during World War II in both the European and Asiatic-Pacific Theatres of Operations with the 342nd Infantry Regiment.
Don was honorably discharged in 1946 and attended Woodbury College on the GI Bill. Upon graduation, he went to work for the Fillmore School District in the accounting department and remained there until his retirement in 1988. In 1954, he married Beverly Clarkson. They made their home in Fillmore and were married for fifty-five years.
Don was an accomplished tennis player and for many years played weekly with a local group of serious competitors. He played in numerous local tournaments, winning several trophies. Don was very gifted musically and sang and played his clarinet in various musical groups in Fillmore over the years. Dixieland Jazz was a favorite of his. After retirement, he and Beverly traveled often to Jazz Festivals. Most recently, he was a member of the choir at Santa Paula Presbyterian Church. Another favorite activity of Don’s was playing bridge. He and Beverly were regular players in a couples’ bridge group. In recent years, he enjoyed playing in a men’s group with other bridge enthusiasts.
Don had a great sense of humor and loved to tell jokes. He was easygoing and had a positive outlook on life. He was much loved and will be greatly missed. Don was a wonderful husband and father who is survived by his daughters, Joy Mosbarger and Jill Sobieski; and eight nieces and nephews and their families. Don was preceded in death by his wife, Beverly; his parents, Orley and Margaret; and his sister Peggy Bartels.
A private graveside service will be held at Bardsdale Cemetery.

 
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Mabel "Tobey" Bowers (1934-2020)

Mabel "Tobey" Bowers (1934-2020)

Tobey Bowers, 85, of Fillmore, California, born Mabel Gertrude Klink, passed away peacefully at home on March 25, 2020. Tobey, wife of Loren “Chub” Bowers and daughter of Wayne and Lilly Klink; was born April 7, 1934 in Salem Center, Indiana. Tobey was the 3rd child of eleven. As the oldest girl she developed lifelong gifts: a magical way with babies, an artful command of the kitchen and a love for entertaining. Tobey was a devout Christian read her Bible daily, and loved sharing devotions with her sisters. Her favorite hymns were The Old Rugged Cross and I Come to the Garden Alone.
She received her nick-name at age 14 when Chub teased her, calling her Tobey because one day she was “to be” his wife. Married for 66 years, Chub proceeded her in death by 8 months. Also preceding her death were brothers Michael and Charles Klink and grandson Kevin Roberts. Tobey is survived by 4 children: Tami (Gary), Terri, Todd, Tracy (Debbie), 12 grandchildren and 8 great-grandchildren.
Tobey attended Salem Center High School where she enjoyed cheerleading, choir, acting in plays and musicals and office work for the Principal. Her Senior trip was to New York City where she climbed to the torch in the Statue of Liberty. She worked at Ashley Bait Factory, General Telephone as an operator, and General Electric as a receptionist. She also modeled and was a top-10 Mrs. Fort Wayne finalist from hundreds of contestants. She was beautiful, kind and gracious. She routinely hosted ladies-luncheons and family dinners at home on Saint Joe Road.
In 1964, seeking warmer climate to aid a son’s ill health, Chub and Tobey left Indiana for Sylmar, California via Route 66. An entertaining trip full of song and games, historical sites and tourist traps, Trading Posts, and the Grand Canyon. Tobey worked long hours and was quickly able to create a happy new home. Tobey ensured each child participated in their chosen activity: church, baton twirling, Job’s Daughters, Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, Indian Guides, swim team, cake decorating, band, parades, or farm animals. She volunteered with each organization and hosted team dinners, kidnap breakfasts, retreats, Jamboree’s, sleep-overs, make-up parties, modeling, piano lessons, fashion show luncheons, and fund-raising. She gave from her heart; tirelessly with elegance, love, and skill. Chub and Tobey built a successful business together; Bowers Concrete Construction Company. Tobey also worked for the Los Angeles County School District and at Sylmar High School.
In 1978 they purchased the “Big Yellow House on the Hill” east of Fillmore, California. It was a glorious era of family gatherings, philanthropy, entertaining and “home base.” BBQ’s, luau’s, weddings, holidays, and birthdays were always on the agenda. She loved her “Red Hat Ladies” group, their luncheons and parades.
Tobey was passionate about philanthropic work. She was a 20+ year member of The Republican Women’s Organization and proud to serve as President. She hosted fundraisers and outreach gatherings for Senators, Assemblymen, District Attorneys, and others at her home. She ensured everyone she met was registered to vote. Tobey and Chub flew a large American flag high from their hill overlooking Highway 126.
Tobey was a 30+ year member of the Fillmore Women’s Service Club where she also served as President. Through community events $20,000 each year was raised and awarded as college scholarships for local students. At a fundraiser-auction, her apple pie sold for more than $100.
Tobey loved caring for her family and visiting with each one. She passed along her love of cooking, baking, sewing, and community service. To know Tobey, was to have made a life-long friend. She will be deeply missed by her family, friends and community.
A memorial will be planned for California, and funeral in Indiana at a later date.

 
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Louis “Lou” Andrew Amen (1929-2020)

Louis “Lou” Andrew Amen (1929-2020)

Louis “Lou” Andrew Amen passed away peacefully on May 5, 2020 at his home in Corona del Mar, CA at the age of 90.
Louis, the middle of five sons, was born on May 17, 1929 in Flint, Michigan, to Bishara Ameen Tannous and Marcella Ann Radwin, both immigrants from Lebanon. He graduated from Northern High School in 1946. Lou was a lifelong entrepreneur and the perfect example of the “American Dream,” starting his first business as a teenager selling Eskimo Pies to the GM factory workers. He used the $1500 profits he saved to help relocate his family to Los Angeles, where they could enjoy warmer weather.
At the age of 17, Lou held his first management position in the grocery industry as the Produce Manager at the A&P store in Hermosa Beach, California. He leased the produce department from the Vernon Vermont market in 1952. On his first day, he started with $60 in produce that he sold for $100. The next day he bought $100 in produce that he sold for $200. Within two years he had become a full partner. For a decade they had the grocery concessions in the back of Leonard’s Discount stores. Shortly after they formed S&A Foods that grew into a 10 store chain, which was later sold to Arden-Mayfair.
In 1971, Lou started Super A Foods, which grew to over 500 employees and currently has eight locations. Even in his older years, he continued to work four days a week, including the morning he passed. He fiercely loved the grocery profession and became an industry leader, serving as Board Member and Chairman of both Unified Grocers of California (for over 40 years) and the California Grocers Association. Lou Amen received several honors as a grocery advocate throughout his lifetime including his induction into the Food Industry Hall of Fame in 2016. He is well known and respected in the industry for his deep knowledge and love of grocery, business acumen and strong relationships with peers. Four of his children, son-in-law and two grandchildren continue his legacy at Super A Foods.
In 1949, Lou met the love of his life, Dolores "Dorie" Ara at a Lebanese picnic on Labor Day. Their first date was at the Lime House Chinese restaurant where they shared curry noodle soup. They were married February 18th, 1950 in Los Angeles. He always teased that he needed to get married so he could get back to work; even then dating was exhausting!
Lou and Dorie raised seven children in Encino and later relocated to Corona del Mar in 1974. Their family continued to grow in Orange County and their tight knit clan currently includes 21 grandchildren, 26 great-grandchildren and one great-great grandchild, with two more on the way. His seven children credit their father’s strong work ethic and moral example to their modern day success. He has been a role model to many including his grandchildren, employees and industry colleagues.
You would often find Lou playing cards with Dorie, his children and grandchildren. His competitive spirit made him quite the card challenger and beating him was the ultimate bragging rights in the Amen household. Lou also loved nature, regularly tending to one of his many flower pots or taking sunset pictures from his balcony of 45 years.
In 1983, Lou and Dorie purchased a family ranch in Fillmore, where he enjoyed hand picking oranges, avocados and lemons to give to his family and friends that frequented their home. After establishing several citrus ranches, he served on the board of the Fillmore Piru Citrus Association for three years. Shortly after, the city council approached him about opening a local market in Fillmore and so he added a Super A Foods store to the area.
Louis is survived by his loving wife of 70 years, Dolores, father to Christine Amen, James (Sherrie) Amen, Dr. Daniel (Tana) Amen, Jeanne (Ken) Miller, Mary Anne Amen, Renee Amen and Joanne (Joud) Tedmori. Grandfather to Jeff (Kashauna) Roberts, Nicole (Christopher) Wasgatt, Jimmy Amen, Matt (Charly) Amen, Andy (Meghan) Amen, Anton Amen, Breanne (Jesse) Payne, Kaitlyn (Kyle) Brumleu, Chloe Amen, Kenny (Niccole) Miller, Krystle (Chad) Meyer, Celina (Brian) Coffman, Daniel (Dalise) Falkenstein, Michael Amen Falkenstein, Nicholas Falkenstein, Jaclyn (Tyson) Petrovich, Amanda (Kevin) Steinbeck, Jina (Christian) Provensen, Jennifer (Paul) Raftery, Jude “JJ” (Alex) Tedmori, and Jeffrey (Bianca) Tedmori.
Memorial donations may be made to The California Grocers Association Educational Foundation, the fund providing scholarships for Lou’s employees and their family members for over 20 years. 7200 Dominion Circle, City of Commerce, CA 90040.