PFC Fred Raymond Ponce III, affectionately known as Freddie, passed away on April 16, 2024, at the young age of 21. Born on October 11, 2002, at Santa Paula Memorial Hospital, the cherished and beloved first son of Jennie Rose Menjuga and Fred Ponce Jr. At the age of 2, Freddie was given the nickname “Tonka” meaning “Buffalo” in the Native American language. Papa Ray said Freddie’s personality reminded him of the “Tatonka”, the great animal which gives completely of itself for others. Freddie attended Fillmore Unified School District and graduated as a Sierra High Warrior, Class of 2020. After high school Freddie decided to follow in the footsteps of many family members by joining the military, the United States Army. Freddie earned the rank of Private First Class Ponce III was assigned to Bravo Company (Beast), 65th Engineer Battalion (Bayonets), 25th Infantry Division at Schofield Barracks, Hawaii.
Freddie’s adventurous spirit was evident in his love for the outdoors. He loved his family trips to Convict Lake. Fishing, hiking, hunting, BBQing and camping were just some of his favorite hobbies. Freddie loved all genres of music, often volunteering to DJ any get together and always hitting the dance floor. Driving his Papa Fred’s 64 Impala and cheering on his Raiders, Dodgers and Lakers was another favorite pastime.
Known for his quick wit, sarcastic humor and infectious smile, Freddie left a lasting impact on everyone he met. Freddie loved family time, hanging out with friends, holidays and especially his birthday! He always went big for his special day. Freddie loved being a brother, always trying to keep up with each of his 7 siblings. He also cherished his friendships and considered many of them his brothers and sisters. He married his high school love Ayleen and together they had their “fur babies” Jack, Honey & Whiskey.
Freddie’s journey, though brief, has touched so many people and his legacy will live on in the hearts of those who knew him. The city of Fillmore mourns this bright, young soul. We thank him for his service to our Country. He will be deeply missed but never forgotten. His beautiful smile, handsome face, white tee with 501’s and Jordan’s is an image we will hold near and dear when we close our eyes and see Freddie. May he rest in power and peace. And forever be our guardian angel.
Freddie is survived and deeply missed by his loving parents, Fred Ponce Jr and Jennie Rose & Phil Monroe, his sisters Destiny, London, Peyton & Dallas. His brothers Maxx, Joey & Jayden. His wife Ayleen Castaneda Ponce. He also leaves behind his maternal grandparents, Ray Mejuga & Rosie Frias, his paternal grandparents, Fred Sr & Yvonne Ponce, Sam & Isabel Diaz. Great grandparents Raymond & Elma Ponce and Teresa Marquez. And a close-knit family of aunts, uncles, cousins, and many friends. He was predeceased by his great-great grandparents Lillie Torres, Isabel “Chubby” Armendariz, Ramiro Marquez Sr, Isabel Arroyo-Newlon. Aunt Tammy Menjuga-Arbaugh and cousin Michael “T-Bird” Alamillo.